“Omg, I'm such a pick me girl since I did xyz..”. By not following the advice online it can make you feel unaccepted, and then you lose the truth behind who you are because you’re trying so hard to fit the identity of the high value woman. And while the advice online isn’t meant to bring you harm..advice in general isn’t. It’s meant to do the complete opposite, but what it also does if it’s not taken with a grain of salt is take away your voice, ideas and intuition. It also takes away your growth.
Read MoreWith that fire underneath you, you set out and did just that. But now that you’ve been putting in the time for someone else’s dream you feel less impactful and more like a pawn. Also, because you were taught to follow the rules so you don’t risk losing your job, you feel uncomfortable showing up authentic and default to leaving your personality at the door along with your dreams.
Read MoreExpectations can be a great way to set boundaries in your life and keep you relationships healthy, but on the other hand expectations can dwarf many relationships, including the one with yourself. Here are 5 effective ways to trust yourself when you are stepping away from who people expect you to be.
Read MoreThe people pleasing habit stems from the innate need to be welcomed in to a tribe. I do believe that being a part of a tribe is definitely something that is healthy and can be productive, but some tribes, especially those who make you lose yourself, are the tribes you want to steer clear of.
Read MoreOne of the most common reasons why women don’t know their worth is because the first male figure in their life who is thought to model and teach them their value is absent. So I did some research. Fatherless women usually try to determine their worth by accepting any attention from men that makes them feel wanted instead of understanding the value of self. That means she usually is receptive of disrespect, she usually seeks validation from compliments from others opinions--in person or online and she constantly questions herself, wondering if she is good enough for love. Let’s look into what that means and what someone experiencing this can do to strengthen their self esteem.
VIDEO: Society is so obsessed with being successful, but what defines success? Many times we go off of what's acceptable, that our parents said is the right path, but do you know a lot of "success" is based off of other's fears. To be at peace. you have to define your own definition of success. Learn how to identify success.
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